Good Things Friday (123) and Link Love
July 2, 2021
1. Sneaking through the bedroom where Smol was sleeping, my heart squeezed. Their little tiny baby face! So tiny, so baby.
2. Our library is open to the public with precautions and we’re so grateful. We came away with a tower of books, a stack of summer activities for JB and a free board book for Smol. I love the library as much as an adult as I did as a kid.
It’s time for my annual donation to the library. My birthday gift to myself is supporting the library. Usually I just have the bank send a check but I want to write a thank you card to the staff this year.
3. JB and I did a little YouTube craft tutorial together and I only got annoyed that they didn’t follow directions once. That’s pretty good considering our track record with origami.
4. We also made brownies from a keto sugar-free mix and loaded it up with extra walnuts. It might have more walnuts than mix. It barely holds together and I don’t care. Yum.
5. We were so grateful to have dodged both massive heat waves. Instead we were wreathed in by Karl the Fog all weekend. Though I do love some heat those 115 degree temperatures were no joke. My sunburns aren’t ready to be retoasted.
6. I bought these spin pins years and years ago, and could not get them to work in my hair. I was very annoyed with myself but set them aside in hopes that eventually I’d find a use for them. It turns out when your hair is as long as it can possibly get, more than halfway down your back, it’s long enough to be held by these! Just one holds up one of my buns now. I JUST discovered this when I was inspired to try doing something new with my hair (double cone buns which did not work at all).
Challenges this week: JB is processing the loss of our friend and that’s a bumpy road. Well heck, we’re all processing.
My back pain has escalated this week. I’ve woken up with a great deal of muscle pain even though I’m laying on a heating pad for at least a couple hours each night. I have knee support and neck support and the mattress is new so I don’t know what’s wrong. I also picked up my planks and walks most days again but it hasn’t put a dent in this pain. Alas my massage therapist isn’t available until the fall.
How “millennial money management” sells young people the illusion of financial control
Airbnb Is Spending Millions of Dollars to Make Nightmares Go Away
THE UGLIEST BABIES IN THE WORLD A short story by Vanessa Chan
Maggie and family have had one heck of a year so far. Check out their Q2 update.
@HeatherTDay: When I was 19, my boss – who was 45- said I should be a phone-sex operator and laughed. I said “I don’t get it”. He said “it’s a joke”, and I said “explain it to me”. And that’s how I learned that once sexual harassers have to explain why their inappropriate jokes are funny, they stop laughing. My dad just told me “never laugh. They will mistake your nervous laughter as compliance. Instead, pretend you don’t get it, and watch them explain to you why you should be laughing.” I’ve used this advice my whole life since.”