July 21, 2008

Ten days, and no word

Perhaps it was too much to ask for with free shipping, but I was hoping to take my new Martin+Osa button down shirt with me to the East Coast. I placed the order on July 11th, and the tracking information still hasn’t been uploaded, so that’s probably not going to happen.

I wonder if this slow delivery is typical of their shipping methods, or if there’s a problem? Hope it’s the former.

Bank-owned properties: coming to a neighborhood near you

Part of my flurry of life-rehab has been taking the dog for a walk every day after work. My hours finally get me home before dark these days, and I’ve been doing pretty well with taking her out between 3-5 times a week, depending on whether or not I’ve walked home from the train station.

As she and I meander through the neighborhoods, I count the For Sale signs on some lawns, and note the unshuttered, unblinded, dark-eyed gazes of those abandoned homes. I wonder, whatever happened to those people?

Out of curiosity, I examined the notice posted on the door of one of our former neighbors’ homes. It said that the owner of the home had been foreclosed on, and the renters were given 30 days to move out. We weren’t friends, but I’d seen the family members occasionally, nodded hello when walking the dog as they were watering their lawn. I wonder where they went and if they were able to find affordable and adequate housing elsewhere? The For Sale sign had been on their lawn for several long months, and my guess is that they either couldn’t find a buyer or the renters weren’t willing or able to purchase the home from the owners.

The real estate sign disappeared some time ago and at that point, I assumed it’d sold. Apparently not. I feel like a bit of a bad neighbor, having nary a clue what happened to the folks on the corner while the signs of prosperity, large trucks and SUVs, parties and such, were in ostentatious evidence right across the street from them. We’re quietly tucked into our corner sans claim to wealth, but right across the street from us, and across from the neighbors who quietly disappeared, it seems as though none of the troubles of the economy have remotely touched our neighbors across the street. It’s almost like we’re in two different worlds, and on our side of the street, a house has been claimed by the housing troubles with a most ominous sign: Bank owned property. I’d read quite a few stories in the Wall Street Journal of renters who were losing their homes because the owners of the rental homes were in over their heads, and always felt bad for those poor people. It’s a terrible feeling to be at your landlord’s mercy if you’re month to month, or setting a new lease, it’s even worse when you’re also dependent on their financial stability to maintain your home.

As a renter, that sign reminds me daily that my emergency fund and the down payment fund are critically important. While I have no reason to believe that our landlords are experiencing financial difficulties, they could easily decide to raise our rent beyond my strained budget, and we’d be in hot water soon enough. If nothing else, the down payment fund might have to play a bridging role by supplementing the increased rent until I managed to find cheaper lodgings or had enough to truly consider buying property. That involves complications in and of itself, especially with family and pets, but it’s not impossible, and I want to be be as ready as can be when the time comes.

July 18, 2008

Five days until D-Day

On Wednesday I’m getting out of Dodge and spending 3.5 glorious days at Comic-Con. Then we follow up with a less glorious four days on a business trip to the East Coast. Two of the four are travel days, so we won’t have any leisure time. They don’t believe in LT anyway, so we’re not really missing out.

So why am I not packed yet?? ’cause. Just ’cause I’ve been lazy and thinking about it everyday so that sort of counted. I did get my suit dry-cleaned, so that’s ready to go, and I wrote up my packing list last night so FB’s post on Packing for Business Trips is right on time! Now I can compare my list to her guide. I’m usually quite good at packing lightly, but it’s always a challenge to pack better each time.

Current List:
1 business suit, black
1 3/4 sleeve light blazer, black
1 knee-length skirt, black
2 shirts, red/brn and white
3 dinner dresses: black, black and white, and 1 undecided
1 pair dark red strappy heels

Pajamas
Enough underwear
1 pair jeans and 2 tops for travel days
Toothbrush, toothpaste, facial lotion, lip balm
1 pair hoop earrings
1 paperback or three comic books
1 iPhone, wallet, planner
Laptop and charger

I would normally consider just wearing the suit to both days of meetings but it’s going to be hot and muggy there, and I’m only willing to make concessions to business formality the first day. Also, I’m bringing an actual suitcase, albeit small, because I don’t want to stuff my newly dry-cleaned suit in a duffel bag. Bad form, that. Lastly, I’m actually hoping to bring only one pair of shoes for the entire trip, that and a pair of flipflops for getting around my hotel.

I think I’m set for that trip!

Now for the Comic-Con packing ……

Weary of the hustle

For the past few weeks I’ve been up and at it every single day: working (tons), talking to a select few about possible future plans, exploring options, doing a lot of contemplation and consideration. Planning planning planning for Comic-Con and my business trip. Putting some major time into blogging, logging friend time. Basically, I’ve been a busy beaver at effecting some real change in my life. After all, if you’re unhappy, right? More on that later.

It’s taken its toll, though. Last night I turned on my laptop after getting home, started to work on a couple things and found myself lying on the floor talking to BF on the phone like I was a kid home from school with no homework.

That’d be a sign that I’ve been too intense for too long. I’m giving myself a small break tonight: I don’t have to do anything on the career front, the selling the truck front, or the alternate income front. I am formally giving myself permission to enjoy Friday night. Just hang out with some old friends and catch up. If networking happens as part of it, fine, if it doesn’t, fine. I can get back on the horse on Saturday.

I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend and fun plans!

Too Broke to Stop Investing?

Now there’s a funny title. Not such a funny article, though.

According to this article, for my age (25 is such a nice cut off), I need to have between $119k to $282k right now if I were to stop investing in order to maintain a 1 million dollar portfolio by age 70, assuming an 8% annualized return and inflation between 3-5%.

Alternatively, assuming my goal is to have a portfolio of 1 million dollars by retirement, and the chart isn’t clear if they’re using age 70 here too, or if they’re using age 65, I’m going to need to save $8,985,008 assuming 3-5% inflation. I guess they’re also assuming an 8% annualized rate of return?

I’m not sure, there seems to be a whole lot of assuming going on here, and you know what that means!

Means we don’t really know what-all’s going on.

To be perfectly honest, I haven’t decided what magic number I’d be comfortable with. I don’t think there is one. After all, I’m 25 and while I’ve been saving diligently, there are a whole lot of other factors that I’d been focusing on. My savings and retirement numbers are just that right now: numbers. I’m doing my best to maintain a higher rate of savings for as long as I can, but that’s because I’m playing catch-up.

If I had to pick a number, I’d ballpark about 2-3 million by the time I’m ready to retire, or go part-time. It seems like enough to provide for a relatively comfortable lifestyle. Nothing terribly extravagant is necessary, but I think it’s good enough for me to be self-sufficient with regards to medical care and daily life, and some travel.

Ultimately, though, I want to enjoy the journey to that point as much as I expect to enjoy life from that point on. I plan to enjoy the next forty years, not spend them anticipating how much fun I’ll have after these pesky in-between years are over!

July 17, 2008

Kicking myself

Geez. I had it all worked out: the amounts I had to pull from the expense account, and from the other maintenance (short term savings for car, insurance, and travel) for the enormo credit card bill that was due on Tuesday. And I made the payment when due.

But I forgot one thing. I forgot to transfer the entire collected amount from the expense account to the checking account. Now how do you forget something important like that???

Igh. I still can’t believe that with my obsessive little system, I had all the money, and I still forgot an essential step. Now I have to throw myself on the mercy of Citibank in hopes they won’t charge an overdraft fee since I’ve never made this stupid mistake with them before. Seriously, this is why I’m always paranoid: I make stupid stupid mistakes.

The wastefulness of noncommunication

We have got to think before we buy. My parents and I share grocery shopping duties: they buy the Asian groceries and I shop the American sales for staples like bread, milk, juice, eggs, lunch meats, salad, and some fruits. Sometimes veggies. Because I live right across the street from Trader Joe’s, I always stop by there to pick up my eggs for half the price (or less!) of eggs from the other grocery stores. The point is, I’m the egg girl. I always buy the eggs. I thought we had that settled.

You can imagine my surprise, then, when I came home laden with groceries on Sunday including two dozen eggs (I splurged because we run out of one dozen too quickly) to find two 18-count cartons of eggs squatting in the fridge. Yep. Three dozen.

Apparently they’d been to Costco and got three dozen for $4.50, which works out to the same price of my eggs. So we had five dozen eggs in the fridge and I don’t know of any recipe that could possibly induce me to use that many eggs. Maybe a good old fashioned pound cake, but that’d probably call for two pounds of butter.

Boiled eggs for breakfast? Egg salad? Deviled eggs? Cholesterol problems via eggs, anyone?

It just seemed like such a waste of time, energy and gas to go back to the store and return them, if I could, for $3. And a silly story, at that. At the same time, I could not stand the idea of not returning them because three people cannot that many eggs consume. Back to the store, then, where I foolishly explained the dilemma and the store manager looked at me strangely, but refunded my three dollars.

It would have been nice to save two trips to TJs had my parents simply picked up their handy dandy cell phones and asked me before buying. Lesson learned? Tune in next week!

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