By: Revanche

Introducing our plus one

February 11, 2015

We have a new puppy!

No, I’m kidding. No we don’t. It’s much worse than that. πŸ˜‰

It was not the smoothest process ever but we’ve brought home our Little Bean, making us a family of four!

We haven’t slept a full night since. We like hir though and there are no returns so…. πŸ˜‰

Seriously, ze looked very generic “baby” at birth but personality started shining through very quickly and we can tell from whom certain traits were inherited. It makes it hard to remember that ze is actually only moving reflexively and not intentionally when a hand is laid on ours or, more frequently, reaches out and smacks us across our faces. Smiles are only because of gas or a pending epic poo.

We continue to hope ze won the genetic lottery in the big things like good health, not being allergic to furry creatures, tendencies to be happier than not, and a hearty enjoyment of accomplishing things.

Family Integration: people reminded us several times to bring home something with hir smell on it so Seamus could get used to the scent and idea. We knew this but the circumstances were such that we simply couldn’t manage it so their first introduction was under some of the least auspicious conditions (or would have been with any other dog).

Ze was squeaking away in hir car seat while we loaded up the car and he went to investigate, looking at me with no little concern when he spotted hir. Oblivious, ze continued squeaking. I kept a close eye on him but, as usual, had no reason to worry. He eagerly sniffed hir from head to toe, not touching or prodding, just sniffing an inch or two away. Seamus, one of the smartest, gentlest dogs I’ve ever met, he who usually ignores tiny humans no matter how loud or aggravating, was now very interested in this critter.

90 seconds later, he nodded. Ze was family. He gave hir the tiniest, gentlest kiss I’ve ever seen from any dog, great or small, a newborn sized kiss, and has watched over hir ever since. If we’re too slow to change a diaper and/or stop the crying he wants to know the reason why. If we leave hir snugged up in hir little chair, he’s sprawled at the foot of it. I suspect no stranger will be getting past him.

He’s accepted that PiC’s not a fan of him giving hir kisses so while PiC continues to get sloppy kisses and wet willies, LB is now in the dry zone.

We’re bone tired but our little family is surviving!

I give Seamus a snuggle every day to thank him for being the best ever. This would be so much harder if the 2 of them didn’t mesh well.

71 Responses to “Introducing our plus one”

  1. Kris says:

    Congratulations!!!!! Seamus is going to be LB’s guard dog and protector, for sure. Apparently our dog was the same when I was born. I hope the birth was smooth for you physically and otherwise. So happy for you!

    • Revanche says:

      Thanks so much! It’s true. LB was held by a visitor and Seamus bounced anxiously at the visitor’s feet til I reassured him that no one was stealing his sibling.

  2. Zenmoo says:

    Congratulations! Glad to hear everyone is home ok & settling into the new family.

  3. Grace says:

    Congratulations on your baby!

  4. OFG says:

    Congratulations!

  5. Sabrina (you-know-who) says:

    Mazel tov! So glad to hear that Little Bean arrived safely and has been welcomed into your family by Seamus.

  6. Cloud says:

    Congratulations! Wishing you all the good baby luck… i.e., sleep.

  7. So you did it, eh? Congratulations!

    Mwa ha ha! Now the fun begins… πŸ˜‰

  8. Kaye says:

    Congratulations…but you’re not going to say if boy or girl? Seriously?

  9. Congratulations on growing your family! Hope you’re getting some sleep soon!

  10. Linda says:

    Wow, the time sure went by fast! (For us readers, at least.) Congrats! So glad that Seamus has taken to hir quickly, too. If you find yourself needed baby hats or booties, give a shout. I love to knit things for little ones. (And in fact, have a nice sweater already for a small one that I just need to sew the buttons on….hmmm…need a blue baby sweater?)

    • Revanche says:

      That’s a lovely offer! Did the blue sweater not have an intended recipient yet? If not…

      • Linda says:

        I underestimated how fast this baby was going to grow so it was too small. I packed away the sweater for another baby since there usually is another baby coming into the world somewhere. πŸ™‚

        • Revanche says:

          Oh how nice πŸ™‚ i don’t know how we’d establish size though, they all start at different points of course.

  11. Sally says:

    Congratulations! Such exciting and happy news πŸ™‚

  12. That really is such a sweet blessing and I’m so happy it’s working out this way!

  13. ST says:

    Congratulations!

    As a long time reader I can’t believe how much your life has changed over the past few years. So great you have a new addition to your lives.

    This made my heart melt, “He gave her the tiniest, gentlest kiss I’ve ever seen from any dog, great or small, a newborn sized kiss, and has watched over hir ever since. If we’re too slow to change a diaper and/or stop the crying he wants to know the reason why. If we leave hir snugged up in hir little chair, he’s sprawled at the foot of it. I suspect no stranger will be getting past him.”

    I read it 5 times because i was trying to picture it, and it is so adorable.!!

    • Revanche says:

      Thanks so much for reading and commenting! It has been quite the journey these past few years, especially with these characters.

  14. I’m so glad Seamus was welcoming! Welcome to the world, LB!! ^__^

  15. Taylor Lee says:

    Congratulations! Glad to hear your dog has accepted hir so quickly as part of the family!

  16. SP says:

    Congratulations – so glad the doggy is getting along with baby!

  17. oilandgarlic says:

    Congrats!

  18. Congratulations! Babies are just wonderful. πŸ™‚

  19. s says:

    omg, congratulations!!

  20. Paranoidasteroid says:

    Congratulations! Fun fact: my baby is exactly one year older than LB. Enjoy what you can and know that it does get easier and easier (you will sleep >4 hours again!

  21. Alicia says:

    Oh my goodness, I can’t believe I missed this yesterday. Congratulations on a happy and healthy baby that meshes with the furry one πŸ™‚

  22. Matt says:

    congrats, glad to hear everyone is healthy and home! Very happy for you!!

  23. Congrats on bringing home a baby! I’m happy to see you have a healthy child- that is truly priceless.

  24. Congratulations! I didn’t realize you were so far along. Glad to hear you and LB is healthy and happy. Awwh. Seamus + LB together. BFFs! πŸ˜€

  25. Leigh says:

    Congratulations! I love that you’re using ze and hir like Nicoleandmaggie. We don’t need to know the gender. I don’t understand when people give out a lot of info about their kids online who have no say in it. The bit about Seamus meeting the little one was so so adorable πŸ™‚

    • Revanche says:

      Thanks! Obviously I agree: LB is not old enough to give consent and no one has the right to hir information without it. I know long time readers would respect that even if random one time commenters don’t.

  26. Congratulations on your new little miracle. I hope ze naps and that you nap when ze does.
    Remember: Keep one end full and the other end dry.

  27. Sense says:

    CONGRATS!!! Very happy for you and your family.

  28. Congratulations! Happy birthday to the Little Bean πŸ™‚

  29. Karen says:

    Congratulations!! LB and Seamus are going to grow into constant buddies, I bet.

  30. Katie C says:

    So happy for you and family, friend. <3

  31. frugal zeitgeist says:

    Congratulations!!! Wonderful news.

  32. Mary says:

    Belated Congratulations to you, the hubby, and Seamus!
    Best wishes for a napping ze/hir and for you to be able to nap at the same time πŸ™‚

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