November 22, 2018

Just a little (link) love: kitten infestation edition

Just a little link love

One Frugal Girl on her earlier decision-making versus now.

Stand with our friends and neighbors who are being targeted and terrorized and stand up anyway.

Alexis Ohanian Says ‘Hustle Porn’ Is the Most Dangerous Trend in Silicon Valley. Here’s How to Eradicate It. I appreciate it when people are real about the importance of sleep and not working yourself to shreds.

I was tickled by Why Do Bitches Get Riches?: The Power of Unapologetic Confidence and Getting Shit Done

These feelings about living in and loving an America that doesn’t love us back, and in fact, barely tolerates us. I was born here but I know I’m not accepted here, not really.

This year I’m dry brining and roasting a turkey but maybe next year I’ll feel up to spatchcocking, if we get a big enough pan. Maybe I should test it on a chicken first?

The real secret to good biscuits

Kohl’s is trying to crack the younger market. I’m not “younger” in the sense they mean anymore I bet but they are doing a good job.

kittens everywhere

November 15, 2018

Just a little (link) love: cuddle pup and kit edition

Just a little link love

Gift-giving for the British royals. These are interesting in a surreal way, I read as if it’s fiction.

I am hardly any hand at sewing but I am living Kristine’s needlecraft posts because they’re so accessible and get that part of my brain that WANTS to create ticking over with ideas. This week is darning! I used to attempt darning socks purely based on my mental theory of what should be done and the results were pretty hideous but I’m willing to try again now that I have a good guide.

One climate scientist’s commitment to not flying. We are working on our carbon footprint and fly a lot less now than we did years before which is a step in the right direction but I don’t think that we’ll be able to completely give it up for a while yet between my health limitations and being hundreds of miles away from loved ones. I think as we grow our financial independence and have the options to take more time to travel, we can reduce our flying even more. At present I think we’re flying once or twice a year.

I am very much looking forward to reading Michelle Obama’s memoir.

Mining crytocurrencies is absolutely devastating for our environment: During the past two years, researchers estimate cryptocurrencies generated between 3 million and 15 million tons of carbon emissions.

A story about home from Nnedi Okarafor.

I could watch this awesome otter juggling for so long.

This manager is [unprintable].

Hugs

November 8, 2018

Just a little (link) love: Baryshnikat edition

Just a little link love

Mushing through a 7.1 earthquake.

The Wellington Zoo welcomed an extra large litter of Capybara pups on October 25. AND THEY ALL HAVE THE SAME EXPRESSION.

A doctor on his suicide attempt 30 years ago, read Comment 30. (I didn’t read any of the others)

Tame The Beast Or Be Tamed: A musher story that made me feel bad for laughing.

Did you know about Paw Patrol’s dominating popularity? I had just seen some of their co-branded things like Band-Aids but knew nothing about them despite having a preschooler. All the kids are into PJ Masks (absolutely terrible stories in the books we checked out), Peppa Pig, and one other color coordinated set of kiddie superheroes but I don’t know their names.

So many cephalopods – gorgeous!

Angela’s report from the first annual Cents Positive retreat! It sounds like it was awesome.

Baryshnikat!

November 1, 2018

Just a little (link) love: Goldblum edition

Just a little link love

I adore Dolly Parton for the good she’s done in the world but I recognize that at the same time, she is more complex than I ever realized in her performance of whiteness.

I’m SUCH a pessimist. Tawcan’s right at the basic level that if things go wrong in FIRE, you should just go back to work for a while but I can’t help but think of all the complicating factors that may prevent you from getting a job or getting a job that pays enough to cover the bills because I remember my Mom having this problem: ageism, an inability to get back into the field you have experience in, leaving you entry level jobs that might discriminate against your longer resume, etc.

Why Allison is leaving cancer research. I’ve followed her career highlights for a while now and am so happy that she’s able to make the shift that she wants to. I wish that the world of research wasn’t so broken. I know quite a few people still in it who can make it work one way or another for a while but it’s draining and a sacrifice frequently and feels less than worth it.

Veronika on obligatory gift giving. I’m very much in favor of eliminating this entirely but that’s out of my control.

I am not at the point where I can afford fashion as a regular part of my budget, my annual spending is under $250 a year because there’s just no justifying spending good money on clothing when I have plenty that sorta kinda fits and my work doesn’t care what I look like. BUT when I do want to shop, this post full of ethical shopping sources is fantastic.

Ways to guard against financial elder abuse. I’ve been thinking of older dear friends with assets (but no children to help) and hoping we can help them guard against this as they get older and need more help.

A clear set of strategies to deal with the climate change problem, all of which need to be implemented to even make a dent in our warming problem.

People illegally scatter human ashes at Disney regularly. WHY.

October 25, 2018

Just a little (link) love: TI edition

Just a little link love + small wins

If you need help with your ballot research ahead of Nov 6, this might be a good resource.

Never Open It.

Misty Copeland…“the first African American female principal dancer in American Ballet Theatre’s 75-year history in 2015.”

Xin’s trip to Taiwan and Japan.

How to Write About a Vanishing World. I have to admit that knowing this is happening has got me quite down. We’re destroying our planet, right now, for us and for our kids already born. How has dystopian science fiction NOT prepared us to stop it??

Tanja is reading my mind pretty much always: Climate change. How are you preparing for climate change in the long run?

Comments are off on this post for reasons I can totally understand but I wanted to comment here – Debt is exhausting! Apparently some people think mortgage debt is “good” (probably because of tax deductions?), I personally find it exhausting and want it GONE.

Parents, are you behind the camera or in the picture? I always forget to try and take pictures with the kids, so generally I have pictures of them playing but PiC has always from Day One made it a point to take pictures of him and JB together. Those two goofballs. I love that succession of pictures.

In 10 years of hiring, I’ve never had a candidate who declared they were the best person for the job even approach the top 50% of candidates. It’s never been used by any of my top candidates who went on to be superstars in their areas.

T.I. feud

I don’t typically keep up with most rap feuds, though they can produce some amazing music and this is no exception, but a friend passed on the link with a note: TI had a feud with Shawty Lo so he filmed this video in Shawty Lo’s hood. I especially appreciate this in light of this money related story I just read about TI buying up homes in his old neighborhood that’s rapidly gentrifying and creating affordable housing. That’s a multi-millionaire I can tip my hat to.

October 18, 2018

Just a little (link) love: shocked cat edition

Just a little link love

Baby NZMuse has arrived (early!)!

Engineering conversation

Bidding adieu to Prudence Debtfree.

Don’t drink plane water!

How Netflix handled General Amaya’s character and her deafness

Are you indecisive? Trello collected some decision making wisdom.

Veronika’s hit the halfway mark on her student loans.

Likhain’s amazing Guest of Honor speech at Continuum. Read it for the stories.

Beautiful memories of a grandmother.

Stephonee pulled off a grand student debt repayment by credit card scheme. All details here.

Basic Economic Security in the United States: How Much Income Do Working Adults Need in Each State? This breakdown puts us in California as needing somewhere between $94,000-$106,000 per year. If we didn’t have to save at all then I suppose that might do it but I can’t comprehend a world in which I didn’t always need to save. Even when we’re no longer making income, I have trouble envisioning that future in which we just spend a limited income and don’t save actively. I’m so programmed.

This seems like a bad idea: “Nectome is a preserve-your-brain-and-upload-it company…For Nectome’s procedure to work, it’s essential that the brain be fresh. The company says its plan is to connect people with terminal illnesses to a heart-lung machine in order to pump its mix of scientific embalming chemicals into the big carotid arteries in their necks while they are still alive (though under general anesthesia).”

October 11, 2018

Just a little (link) love: Thanks, Cap edition

Just a little link love + small wins

Dog People vs. Cat People vs. Alligator Snapping Turtle People

The lynching of Mary Turner. The inhumanity in this country 100 years ago still burns strongly today.

Women are penalized for asking for more money, or penalized by being paid less when we don’t, but there’s a way to frame that question.

Travel packing for parents made me laugh. Except #1. Vaccinate your kids we shouldn’t still be having this conversation OMG.

Simple crafts I might actually do this year, thanks for the tutorial, Kristine! (The drawstring bags! I will make shoe and laundry bags for travel, they will live in our suitcase.)

I adore food prep posts like this from Frogdancer. I might not be able to do all the same kinds of prep but it gives me IDEAS. And I’d like tips on doing this sort of thing sustainably as well.

If you’re expecting, this is what worked and didn’t work for Crystal in their first three months of parenting.

Just as Hugh Jackman is Wolverine for me, a diehard Marvel fan of old, Chris Evans IS Captain America. I’m sad to know he’s done though I realize 8 years is a long time to be playing one character if you want to keep doing new and challenging things in your work. Thanks, Cap / Chris.

via GIPHY

Science Says Toxic Masculinity — More Than Alcohol — Leads To Sexual Assault: When a man feels entitled to assault someone, he may get drunk before he does it, but the decision to act was ultimately his alone.

Instead, current research suggests that prevention should focus on those perceptions and behaviors that did strongly predict assault. Although they’re often referred to in the literature as “personality variables,” they aren’t immutable characteristics any more than personality itself is immutable. “There’s a small number of sociopaths, but there’s a lot of it that’s cultural,” Testa said. In other words: Are these men supported by peers who also voice negative attitudes about women? Is it considered socially acceptable to look for the drunkest girl at a party and try to take her home? Are there social consequences for young men who ignore consent?

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